#2: How to Train Your Narcissist [Masquerade]
So this turned out to be a whole lecture! On narcissism, shame, guilt, remorse, and self-love. I DO hope it helps someone.
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Show notes
The good old Wikipedia page on Narcissism
Marshall Rosenberg (Non Violent Communication)
“When I look at narcissism through the vulnerability lens, I see the shame-based fear of being ordinary. I see the fear of never feeling extraordinary enough to be noticed, to be lovable, to belong, or to cultivate a sense of purpose.” ― Brené Brown — Daring Greatly
Martha Beck — the Way of Integrity
Chapters
00:00:00 - Intro
00:02:22 - Topics & disclaimer on moralizing
00:10:14 - My experience with narcissism
00:23:08 - Shame
00:26:15 - Acting out of shame
00:27:29 - Acting out of shame: pride
00:36:25 - Acting out of shame: hiding
00:47:02 - Guilt + remorse
00:55:42 - Healing shame & CG Jung
01:00:45 - My process for healing shame
01:08:17 - Self-love vs narcissism
01:14:20 - Outro